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Rosemary Clopton Quirk quietly slipped away on
March 26, 2016 after 97 years on this earth. She was born to Verne M. and Fannie
J. Allen Clopton on June 7, 1918 in Ada, Oklahoma. However, when Rosemary's
birth was reported to Oklahoma City her date of birth was recorded as July 7.
Her mother vouched for the June 7 date "because she was there." So, for all her
life Rosemary had 2 birth dates: hers and the one the government gave her. |
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Rosemary's
father was a "wildcatter" when the oil
industry was a new business frontier
full of risks and adventures. Verne dug
a lot of oil wells all over Texas,
Louisiana and Oklahoma. Rosemary and her
siblings Verne, Jr (Buddy), John Allen,
and Jane went along. A story that
Rosemary told occasionally of the early
life was of being awakened by her mother
and told to hurry and get dressed. Her
mother told her they needed to get out
of town because, "A man is looking for
your father with a gun." During the
wildcat days, Rosemary lived and went to
school in east Texas, the valley and
graduated from Highland Park High School
in Dallas with future Governor Bill
Clements. After high school, we assume
voluntarily, the Clopton family moved to
San Antonio. For three years, Rosemary
attended Incarnate Word College where
she majored in Spanish but her very
favorite subject was math. She never
finished college because love
intervened. |
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In 1938,
Rosemary met the love of her life on the
roof of the St Anthony Hotel. At that
time, dances were held on the roof of
the St Anthony under the stars. Frank J.
Quirk, Sr. asked her to dance. Rosemary
and Frank had not met before that
evening but they danced the night away.
They were married in November of 1938
and the dancing continued until 1992
when he went home after 54 years of
marriage. |
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During the
course of their marriage, Rosemary was a
homemaker for Frank and their children.
Rosemary and Frank had four children and
somehow they managed to survive raising
3 rambunctious boys and a lovely, sweet
daughter who had a very special place in
Rosemary's heart. Son Frank J. Quirk,
Jr. died in 2014, daughter Mary Burns
Quirk Jones died in 1993, and son Robert
Clopton Quirk died in 2015. Son Thomas
Edward Quirk is still vertical. |
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Rosemary
played party bridge for many years with
a number of groups in homes and other
locations. After the death of her
husband Frank, Rosemary decided she was
going to start playing duplicate bridge
and continue her party bridge games with
her many friends on many different days.
Rosemary has been described as a bridge
player extraordinaire. She played in
duplicate tournaments in San Antonio and
other cities and at the Bridge Club of
San Antonio. As a member of American
Contract Bridge League her duplicate
bridge playing skill earned her 1,222
masters points and the honor and title
of Silver Life Master. |
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Before
bridge became a very important part of
her life, Rosemary was deeply dedicated
and involved in all things Republican.
Rosemary was a Republican when there
were no Republican office holders in the
entire state of Texas. She was a member
of the Republican women's clubs, she
volunteered time to work on campaigns,
she volunteered at the San Antonio
Republican Party office headquarters and
she donated money to Republican party
candidates at the local, state and
federal levels. In 1968, Rosemary and
Frank were so committed as Republicans
they paid for their son Tom, at 17 years
old, to attend the National Republican
Convention as a Honorary Assistant
Sargent at Arms in Miami, FL. Rosemary
and Frank were early Ronald Reagan
supporters. |
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There was
yet another part in Rosemary life that
filled her life with fun: she was an
unwavering fan of the Spurs basketball
and Longhorn football. So great was her
loyalty to the Spurs that she was given
the Mary Kathleen Rice Spirit Award for
"her enthusiastic, loyal support of the
San Antonio Spurs" on November 5, 1988.
She and Frank were also given an award
when they reached 25 years as season
ticket holders. Although she never
attended UT, Frank did and they were
Life Members of the Texas Exes and spent
as many hours as they could watching
Texas football. Rosemary love of Spurs
basketball and UT football only stopped
when she did. |
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The family
wants to send blessings and gratitude to
the four caregivers who, day and night,
were so loving, tender and always caring
for Rosemary over the last period of her
life. A heartfelt thank you to Monie
Zerr, Shirley Kidd, Joyce Smallwood and
Darlene Hickman. The numerous stories
they shared with us of fun and joy with
Rosemary warmed our hearts. We also want
to acknowledge and thank Donna Wellborn,
the owner of Seniors Helping Seniors,
for providing us with caregivers who
truly cared. Donna's people made sure
that Rosemary was cared for every minute
of every day. Knowing that Rosemary was
always cared for was a comfort to all
the family. |
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Family who
preceded Rosemary in death and whose
passing is not noted above are: Verne M.
and Fannie J. Allen Clopton, her
parents; siblings: Verne, Jr (Buddy)
Clopton, John Allen Clopton, and Jane
Clopton Crain. Buddy and John Allen were
pilots. Buddy died in World War II and
John Allen died during the Korean
Conflict. Jane, her younger sister, died
in 2006 and William H. Quirk III, her
nephew, died in 1998. |
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Some but
not all who are left behind to miss her
smile, her warmth and love are: her son,
Tom and wife Ann-Marie Cerda Aaron, aka
"Sam", Karen Quirk, recent widow of
Robert Clopton Quirk, Eldon Jones,
widower of Mary Burns Quirk Jones; her
grandchildren: Colleen Quirk and husband
Tim Derk; Cathleen Quirk Lane and
husband Dale Lane; Justin Jones and wife
Sarah Costa Jones; Molly Quirk and
husband Reed Boyd; Christopher Quirk and
wife Stephanie Quirk; Robert K. Quirk
aka Rob, Reuben (Daniel) Perez, Nancy
Shellhorse and husband David Shellhorse.
Great-grand children: Taylor Lane,
Griffin Derk, Abaigeal Lane, Mairin Derk,
Ryland Quirk, Caden Lane, Paige
Shellhorse and Clarke Shellhorse. Niece
Mary Lee Quirk Rourke and husband Bill.
Nephews: Pat Quirk and wife Artie,
Michael Quirk and wife Linda and Charles
Z. Crain and wife Lucinda. |
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A memorial
service was held on April 9th in the
Mausoleum Chapel at Holy Cross Cemetery
followed by a celebration of Rosemary's
life at the Barn Door Restaurant, where
she and her family enjoyed meals
together for 60+ years. |
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Please
consider making a donation, in her
honor, to the Republican Party of Bexar
County or to your favorite charity. |
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